Sunday 11 October 2009

Train your daughters home keeping

Hello Friend

Happy Sunday to u! Church service was refreshin I hope u had a great day today.

I will like to talk about, why u should train your daughters how to keep a home.

The bible tells us that, we should train a child in d way she should go so that, when they grow older, they will not depart from it.

The responsibility lies with parents and most especially, the mother.

As a mother, u need to get your priorities in order. God first, Husband second, Children third, Work fourth and others including family are last.

U need to teach them how to cook simple foods first. For example, cook noodles, make sandwiches, fry chips or plaintains in a deep fryer. Once she has mastered this, teach her how to cook rice, stew and other foods.

Let her help in d kitchen from age 8. Too young? Well, once she is over 10 yrs, it may be too late.

Teach her to sweep her room first and then, move on to sweeping d whole house.

Teach her how to set the dining table with cups, plates and cutleries.

Teach her how to serve your food on a tray. Which bowls to use for washin hands? How to serve drinking water?

In Africa, we are taught and trained by our mothers. But, a lot of mothers are pursuing careers and adopting the western culture of lack of training.

Teach her how to wash her pants and bra after bathing.

Teach her how to lay a bed.

Teach her how to take care of her hygiene during period.

Teach her good hygiene.

I can never forget when my grandmother taught me how to make Egusi stew.

A lot of marriages are broken due to d fact that, d girl cannot cook. This is common among d rich. The rich women cannot find the time in their "party time schedule" to stay at home and teach their kids.

They r forgetting d fact that, a typical African man prefers to eat at home. Our men were brought up, enjoying their mothers sweet cooking.

One of d MOST important way a Nigerian man will consider to marry u will be, if u can cook. Forget beauty.

If u r d most beautiful woman in d world and u cannot cook. Um! I pity u.

If u r a single woman and guys have been testing u and asking u to cook and u have been failing d test. Hope is not lost.

U can learn to cook.

Go to a woman whom u enjoy her cooking and ask her to teach u. Buy a notebook and take notes.

Google nigerian recipes and start cooking.

My prayer is that, your son in law will say thank u for training my wife. Amen!

Be a good model to her.

God will help u and me. We are all learning.

Rgds


Olubola Adeleye

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Olubola Adeleye